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The main problem that should be tackled first is why you cannot perform a download to one of the servers. How did you transfer the project manually? Using the project duplicator? In this state delta download will not work properly. If one machine works and the other doesn't, most likely it’s an installation/setup issue.
Any way, take a look at the following FAQ; it may solve your delta loading problem.
Why doesn't OS delta load from the SIMATIC PCS 7 ES work despite Runtime being active on the OS station?
http://support.automation.siemens.com/WW/view/en/22957614
Regards